10 Tips for Watching Porn With Your Partner

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We spoke with sex educators and therapists to get the definitive answers to your biggest porn questions. Watching with a partner is an opportunity to have these be a mutual experience and to practice some erotic vulnerability. Amber Mallery, the sex educator behind Gay On Tuesdaysagrees. Sometimes we even take turns picking videos for the other. If that comes up in your relationship, RN and sex educator Rae Higgins says to let it open a bigger conversation about not being as ashamed about your desires. This helps you have more pleasurable sex as well as explore how your wants and needs change over time—because they will change. Not sure how to open that line? Francis suggests a few conversation starters:.