16 Woman-On Top Sex Positions For When You Want To Take Control
Woman-on-top or 'Cowgirl', or 'The Rider' is a classic sex position if you are a woman or have a vagina, and are sleeping with a man or someone with a penis or someone wearing a strap-on. But, if you're an over-thinker like me this is amplified tenfold when naked and having sexit's hard to know exactly what to do when you're up there. Obviously, do what feels good for you. But remember, the best sex happens when both partners are having the time of their lives. Here, some guys on Reddit give their tips for how to ride dick in a way that's enjoyable for everyone involved. If you're ever in doubt, remember the golden rule: talk about it and talk about it honestly and openly. It gets me so turned on to see her take command of her own orgasmic destiny. This is also the most common way for my wife and I to cum together. Going slow.
Body on top is often touted at the same time as THE way to take control of your pleasure, make sex especially penetrative sex feel the way you all the time thought it should, and give you orgasms all over the place. After that all of that is normal. Eavesdrop, being on top can be ace vulnerable. Like, being all naked ahead there can bring up stupid fears about how you look or whether you're secretly bad in bed. Is there a right way to action, and is that what you are doing??? Much as we might altogether want to channel our inner cowgirl, sometimes it's just easier said than done.