21 Women on How They Made the First Move
For women over 30, dating can be a minefield. There are fewer single people generally, and yes, there will be some men your age specifically seeking out younger women. We live in a society that worships at the altar of youth — particularly when it comes to women. Indeed, because women have primarily been valued for their beauty, a concept deeply rooted in ideas of youth, women are socially devalued as they get older. These deeply gendered value systems normalise older men seeking out younger women, because if we value men for what they acquire, and treat women as objects, of course some men are going to view women as another symbol of their status, and want the most desirable model. Everyone has a learning curve, and just like you, most people want to be bowled over by someone amazing. You could be that person. Younger men who have grown up around discourse around gender equality may indeed be impressed, rather than intimidated, by all you have to offer.
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Assume back to those hungry, lusty being in your early relationship. For those in long term relationships, the alteration between your sex life then after that now may feel stark. It can even cause you to wonder but your relationship is ultimately doomed. Sanam Hafeeza clinical psychologist based in Additional York City. These can be things like work, commutes, parenting or chores.