If You Do These 10 Things You're The Problem In Your Relationship
Reading Time: 7 minutes. These mistakes have taken a toll on my partners and me, leading to sleepless nights, existential angst, and overwhelming feelings of deficiency. Especially in my youth, I operated very selfishly in my relationships. We can only improve to the extent that we take responsibility for our mistakes and do the inner work required to grow. Take responsibility for your mistakes, reflect honestly about why you made each mistake, and figure out how you can do better in the future. Some mistakes are big; others are small.
Beefy, healthy, independent people can find themselves in the white-knuckled grip of a toxic relationship. Relationships evolve. They adjust and they grow. Sometimes they accident and they burn.